Day 13: Netherlands and Germany in Semis (25 Jan, 2023)

If World # 1, 2, 3 and 4 are going to reach the semis, why do we need an elaborate World Cup tournament? (I am just kidding!). Yes, Australia, Belgium, Netherlands and Germany are all in Semis and are ranked in the same order.

The theme of this tournament should have been “They-Should-Have-Won-It” tournament. Another game and another team (probably the fourth or fifth time) lost a two-goal advantage. England was ahead until five minutes remaining in the game and they not only conceded 2 goals, but also the penalty shootout to Germany. Compared to any other previous comebacks of various teams in this world cup, Germany was playing the worst game. They barely reached the penalty circle in the first quarter. There was absolutely zero creativity by them in the circle in finding spaces, finding other team players, doing one’s own dribbling. There was nothing!  But Germany “knows” how to fight back. In just less than five minutes remaining in the game, they got two penalty strokes. They converted one. The England player was suspended for 2 minutes. Germany removed their goalie and introduced another player. And suddenly boom, Germany had a two-player advantage, which they exploited to equalize.    

Germany probably knew England’s goalie’s weak defense on his left-hand side. All shootouts by Germany went to the goalie’s right side with a quick 180 turn around and shoot to the left side. All of them went in.

The Indian women hockey team has that fire in the belly to comeback probably due to their modest upbringing. Even men had incredible comebacks in the Tokyo Olympics. Can that fire in the belly be taught? Even with a mental conditioning coach and training? I suspect not. Who knows? (I am just a fan and a blogger!)

It is funny and sad simultaneously that few of us in the stadium keep talking about how India could have easily won this game and how they would have attacked in that game blah blah blah. It is sad that we are not in the semis! And that sadness will not go away for a while.

I have now watched 18 matches within a short span of time. I have probably developed some ability to spot the strategies, certain culture on the field and certain weaknesses. I have mentioned some of them in my blogs. But I have refrained from going into some specific details. I will try to be a little more specific for semis and Finals. But then if we expect the They-Should-Have-Won-It theme to continue in semis and finals, my plans and analysis will be tossed to the trash cans. Such has been this world cup!

Ps: Photo credit to FIH

Day 12: Australia and Belgium reach semis (24 Jan, 2023)

While the results of the two quarter finals were as per the expectations, there was a superb drama in the Australia-Spain match that I did not anticipate at all. Right from the beginning, Spain attacked from the right flank with deliberate intensity. Not sure if the Spanish coach saw weakness in Aussie defense or there was something specific in Spanish midfielder Gonzalez’ attack? But it yielded two goals in quick succession for Spain in the second quarter. Woohoo, we got all excited. Will we see the major upset? Oh well, the game is not over until it is over. When one minute was left in the first half, Spain missed a really really easy chance to make it 3-0, and Australia started its counter attacks. They scored 3 goals within 5 minutes in quick succession. And all our hopes of major upset started melting away. When the score was 4-3, believe it or not, Spain got a penalty stroke (sure shot goal opportunity!) when there were just three minutes left in the game. Definite equalizer, then definite penalty shootout and then definite major upset. Well, that scripted upset never happened. Spain missed the penalty stroke and was knocked out of the tournament.  

The Belgium – New Zealand match was really boring to the point that I went for a chai and watched the game on the screen for a while. Top two teams have now marched to the semis. Belgium looks boringly flawless, while Australian defense looks porous, after conceding 8 goals in the tournament.  

Parents of the Spanish defender #24 Ignacio Rodriguez were sitting behind us. We joined in their excitement and agony by screaming along with them, hugging them and waving their flag. Ignacio’s dad mentioned to us that his son has been working hard for long 18 years to be selected in the team. When I told him that parents must have worked very hard too, he had tears in his eyes. Sometime in my life, I want to understand this excitement, agony and pain of the parents of the sportsmen.

I suddenly noticed the Spanish jersey tagged as “Amat” and remembered the “Amat” dynasty of four brothers in Spanish hockey that dominated the world of sports in 80s and 90s. Looks like their children are slowly continuing their mark in in the sports of hockey as well. Why should dynasties be restricted to Kapoors in Bollywood? They happen everywhere.  

Things are coming to a closure very soon. After today’s second set of quarter finals, there are semis and finals. That’s it!

Day 11: India Stunned By New Zealand (23 Jan, 2023)

India was stunned by New Zealand and was knocked out of the tournament. Indian skills (dribbling, trapping, scooping, passing) were grade A, speed, stamina and fitness grade A, experience and exposure to international matches grade A, resources and best available coaching staff grade A, and even penalty corner performance until this tournament was grade A. Then how can 5th ranked India lose to New Zealand (ranked 12th), which itself was struggling in this tournament?

Why was there a sudden collapse in the last 20 min? Why did we leave defense exposed in NZ’s first two goals? Why not pack the penalty circle with ALL players when leading by two goals? When the entire stadium knew that the ball would be scooped by NZ directly in the penalty area to get the penalty corner (just before the last goal), why was there no one-to-one marking at both ends? Why that crazy shot by Harmanpreet on the verge of winning the shootout? With so many resources poured in, why was there no mental conditioning coach? Why should Hardik’s and Shreejesh’ injuries matter so much? Why the best player award winner of the world Harmanpreet has not been able to score on even one penalty corner out of 25 (one he scored was when the goalkeeper was not present). Why, why, why? There are no answers. Only a devastating knockout! Right here in Bhubaneshwar in a sold-out stadium! This will be the fourth worst performance at best by India in the world cup history!

What could be the answers to the question “why?” Here are my thoughts:

  • Pressure to perform at home, especially after a superb Olympics performance. There are so many advertisements on TV “अभी नहीं तो कभी नहीं” (If we do not win now, then we will never win)
  • Too much reliance on Penalty corners (PCs) that did not work in this tournament. PCs have not been unsuccessful for many teams in this tournament. Everybody is figuring out the defense against PCs, by sometimes employing very innovative tactics, such as two-men-rush by Korea.
  • Lack of mental conditioning coach
  • Grass root level mentality to work individually through less passes, compared to the European teams’ mentality.
  • Unfortunate challenges such as missing penalty stroke by Harmanpreeet against Spain, whose performance was impacted after that incident, Hardik’s injury, Shreejesh’ injury when he was defending penalty shoot-out well, and pressure of captaincy on Harmanpreet.

some of you may have woken up to Hockey recently. If you remember the golden era of the 1960s, you may blame modern hockey for India’s debacle. If you remember disgusting performances of the 1980s, you may say, “Here we go again!” But what you may not know is that India won Olympics bronze in 2020 with 12 of 18 players still in the team. You may not know that Harmanpreet has been the best player in the world for the last two years due to his amazing penalty corner performance (with 33% efficiency). That is why this loss is inexplicable. I guess it is time to move on.

Except Germany beating France, all other three crossovers went to penalty shootout and were won by the third-place finishers in the pool. Notably, Argentina was knocked out by Korea. Argentina and India knocked out even after leading by two goals in their respective matches. So, now there are eight teams in the quarterfinals. Belgium, England, Netherlands and Australia since they topped the pool, and Spain, Korea, New Zealand and Germany by winning the cross overs. Quarter finals begin today. Have fun (now that there is no pressure to follow India’s performance)!   

Day 10: India Loses to New Zealand in Penalty Shoot Out, Out of World Cup (22 Jan, 2023)

Yesterday I was dejected, frustrated and was very very sad. Even this morning, I was groggy, irritated and cranky. But then I went to Chilka Lake for birding. Visiting this heaven is sooo rejuvenating! I am back. But I will still take a day off and start my blog tomorrow please. Not yet in the full chirpy mood I need for my writing. Stay tuned from tomorrow for my daily blog until Hockey Finals.

Day 9: No Hockey Today, Tidbits Number II (21 Jan, 2023)

Hockey had a day off before knockouts start. Obviously, I promptly went on a sightseeing trip to Konark and Puri. It is such a humbling experience, in Konark by experiencing an incredibly progressive society, who had no hesitation in sculpturing explicit sextual scenery on the temple, and in Puri, by seeing masses from all walks of life totally surrendering to the Lord Jagannath. I have also visited Chilka Lake twice and identified 58 bird species with the help of a guide. For me, visiting Chilka at 6 am is like visiting heaven. Period. Life is incredibly busy for me with such travel, 8 hours of watching hockey, watching so many videos, reading so much news and writing reports. And still so much fun!

Anyway, let us get back to our tidbits. 

– I came across Camille and Johanna for the first four days. They must have booked and picked up tickets at the same time as me. Both are from France, studied in the USA and were impressed with the Indian people. It was nice to see them in the news article posted by the CMO office.

– Me and my friend met Rajinder Singh, current US men’s hockey coach and ex-Indian men’s and women’s hockey coach.

–  Do you know that in Penalty Corner, drag flicker hits with the speed of 125-150 kmph, and the defender comes rushing *TOWARDS* the ball. There are not many deaths defying moves other than defending the penalty corners. Watch it carefully next time and feel these crazy hockey balls one of these days. Then you would know!

– India is the only country and Bhubaneshwar is the only city that has hosted consecutive two world cups (2018, 2023)

– Hardik Singh started as a ball boy, Nilam Xess did not have electricity until 2017 and Mumtaz Khan (current sensation of Indian Women Hockey) is a daughter of a vegetable vendor. Story is similar for most other hockey players. I feel frustrated that with far less talent, intelligence, commitment to hard work and passion, I earned far more than these hockey players. When will this change?

– There are brothers all over in the tournament. Paul and Pepe Cunill playing for Spain, Gareth and Rhodri Furlong for Wales and Grambusch brothers for Germany. But there is one more special case. Can you believe that two brothers are competing against each other in the world cup? That is only possible down under in NZ and Australia. Leon Hayward was rejected by Australia, and hence, joined the New Zealand team (his mother is from NZ). Jeremy is playing from Australia.

– Niklas Wellen, forward from Germany became dad just before halftime in the Belgium – Germany match. His coach says that this news is better than even winning the world cup.

– India has 10 players from Punjab, 2 from Odisha, 2 from Haryana and one each from UP, MP, Manipur and Kerala.  

India’s next match is a knockout match with New Zealand on 22-Jan 2023. Here we go again screaming, unfurling the Indian flag, jumping all over! Fun, fun, fun!!!

Day 8: All League Matches Are Over (20 Jan, 2023)

Today Pool A and B had final league matches. Belgium and Australia reached the quarter finals directly. Korea, Germany, France and Argentina qualified for next round and will play the crossovers with winners reaching quarter finals.  Japan and South Africa were eliminated.

The story of the last round of league matches (in two days) was that there were freaking unbelievable 67 goals scored, including 18 goals by the losers. (Just as a perspective, the losers of the first round of league matches scored only 1 goal). I think, the competition for the pool position opened up the game and the attack played a critical role compared to the defense. There were five hat tricks and Charlet Victor from France emerged as the highest scorer in the tournament with 6 goals. That is unheard of! This is the first ever World Cup by France! Besides, they had a spirited fight with Argentina and drew the game 5-5. Just two days ago, I had praised Argentina as if they ARE the world champion. And today, one of the lowest ranked teams, France, scored five goals against them. Oh well!  

On Sunday knock out matches begin! You win or go home. India plays New Zealand. Bad news is that Hardik is out of the tournament due to injury. I have enclosed the knockout map which shows that if India wins NZ, then they play mighty Belgium. Fun literally begins now!! 

There is an excellent analysis on penalty corners today in the newspaper (Could not figure out which one!). If you love hockey, it is worth reading the article (Credit to my friend Mudit for referring this article to me.)

Day 7- India Disappoints in 4-2 Win Against Wales (19 Jan, 2023)

I was emotional! It was first ever live National Anthem in the stadium, first ever live match of India (in any sports), first ever seeing heroes in person, after seeing them on TV for several years. Me and my friend were screaming, we were waving
the India flag, we were jumping when India showed up.. And then they disappointed us in their performance yesterday. They needed 8 goal margins to stay on top of the pool, and the score was 4-2. They were disorganized, they did not attack consistently, as if they had given up to be number one in this pool.

Usually I sleep overnight, bring back my rationality, see all replays and then make my judgments about the game. Maybe I was asking too much from India to get an 8-0 score against Wales. Maybe! But still India cannot be so disorganized and continue to miss so many opportunities. Harmanpreet Singh is supposed to be the star drag flicker of the world in penalty corners. Well, maybe weighed down by the new captaincy, his penalty corner performance has been pretty unimpressive. Our star player Hardik Singh did not play. But he showed up on the field for warm up, suggesting that he may play in the next game. One great news is that, in this league matches of the so-called death pool, we won two matches and drew one. Not bad at all!

Hockey tournamens are like the Indian classical music. It’s “Vilambit” tempo builds through slow league matches with the only objective is to build mood, demonstrate some key strengths, and qualify for next round. Now knockout matches start from 21st. Hopefully, players will start playing “drut” tempo along with some bandish and tarana. I will be ecstatic and pissed off possibly in the same game, and that is exactly what the tournament is supposed to be.

Finally, some other news. England beat Spain 4-0 and topped the pool. Netherlands beat Chile by 14-0 creating the world record for goals. Malaysia beat New Zealand 3-2 in a competitive game. So, as of now, from Pool C, Netherlands, Malaysia and NZ qualified while Chile was eliminated. From Pool D, England, India and Spain qualified and Wales was eliminated.

Funny Facts in Hockey (18 Jan, 2023)

There was no hockey today in the world cup. So, I decided to compile some fun facts and tidbits for all of you.

– Do you know that hockey is played in the water puddle? Astro turf is soaked completely with water. One can even see water splashes on TV when ball or hockey stick hits the ground.

– Why is the hockey pitch blue? The London 2012 Olympics started a new trend for blue hockey pitches, because blue turf helps television viewers to clearly see the ball and markings on the hockey pitch during gameplay.

– Do you know that hockey can be left-handed or right-handed, but not both simultaneously. Therefore, hockey federation has decided to use right-handed hockey sticks. Both handed sticks cause a high risk to injury. For example, if a right-handed player came in for a block tackle against a left-handed stick, they would most likely get hit on the follow through swing.

– Argentina team, inspired by Messi, warms up with football before practicing with hockey.

– Security is tight. Apart from usual things, such as knife, even coins, back packs, water bottles, umbrella and selfie sticks are not allowed.

– Bhubaneshwar is decorated like a new bride 2-3 kms around Kalinga stadium. There are beautiful visual art, lighting, lanterns on the trees and absolutely clean and superb 6-lane roads heading to the Kalinga stadium.

– World cup has an official song called “Hockey Hai Dil Mera” composed by Pritam. Very very catchy tune indeed! (www. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TD6Bl1sF4LA)

I will have game related tidbits in my next edition.

ps: All photos were shot on my cell phone.

Day 5 – Another Draw, Belgium – Germany 2-2 (17 Jan 17 2023)

What would be the management style of a German or Belgium corporate organization in a desperate situation (unlike India or England)? They will obviously still stick to the work plan and processes. That is exactly what Belgium and German hockey teams did in this game as well. They have good skills and excellent fitness (almost as good as those of Indian players). But most importantly, they have a plan that they stick to. And they achieve incredible efficiency of converting opportunities inside the penalty circle. This was not scintillating hockey (from my perspective). But if the objective of playing hockey is to win a game, both teams were highly focused and played very well. In the second game, Korea beat Japan 2-1 in another close match up.

I digress, but I have an important discussion point here. I am a passionate fan of the Univ Michigan (my alma mater) in American College Football. Michigan reached the final four under the leadership of quarterback J J McCarthy. This 19-year boy does mediation for five min right on the field before the game. It helps him to forget past mistakes (including those within the game) and future anxieties. Germany and Belgium have this “cool head” approach inside the penalty circle. It intrigues me as to what makes players become “cool headed” for that instant of 0.1 sec and help them to achieve higher efficiency in converting opportunities to goals? I have no idea.

Few other quick observations:

  • After two rounds of league matches, three of the four pools have the top two teams tied at 4 points.
  • I have another crazy friend, Mudit, who joined me (from my hostel in IIT) to watch all the games in the Kalinga Stadium. Cross checking some observations with him about the action on the field is so much fun!
  • Normally, the right and left top corners of the goal posts are the sweet spots for scoring goals in penalty corners. Mudit observed that most penalty corners are staying low on the ground throughout the tournament. Any strategy? Who knows?
  • Bad news for India? Hardik, the star player of India, is injured and may be out of the tournament.

– Good news for India, the next game is with Wales (not known to be a strong team).

ps: Photo credit to the Internal Hockey Federation

Day 4: Argentina draws with Australia 3-3 (16 Jan 2023)

Do you remember that I had asked about the team psychology in the previous blog? What triggers the teams to perform or falter suddenly for a few minutes? Argentina (ranked 7) faltered the entire game against lowly ranked South Africa a couple of days ago and barely won 1-0. At that time, they did not trap well, dribble well, the ball moved like a random Brownian motion with no purpose and the goalkeeper was sluggish.

Not sure if its Bhubaneshwar water, or slapping by the coach, or scolding by family members or them looking at video tape in shame. Argentina literally had an about turn against mighty Australia and almost won this match. Australia is a prepared, methodic and highly skilled team. But I think Argentina wanted to prove a point to their coach (or their wives!) that they are not pushovers. Australia scored the first two goals. Argentina netted the ball with the next three consecutive goals, including two field goals (not by penalty corners). Australia tried “Chak-De-India” fame one-on-one marking, partial one-on-one, complete zonal defense, attacking Argentine defenders before the ball reached the midfield. Nothing worked. Eventually, they let the goalie go and introduced all eleven players on attack. This risky strategy worked, and they scored the final goal in waning minutes of the game.

Trust me; Argentina is back! Inspired by Messi, they want this world cup as desperately as anybody else.

There were three other matches. New Zealand was thrashed by Netherlands 0-4. NZ implemented a strategy of removing the goalkeeper in the first quarter. Such a weird strategy will yield weird results. What does one expect? France beat South Africa 2-1 , their first ever goal and first ever win in the world cup. Finally, Malaysia beat Chile 3-2.  

Group B second round matches are pending for Day 5. Then I will analyze the scenario of who is expected to go to the next round.

Ps: photo credit to International Hockey Federation

Day 3: India draws 0-0 with England (15 Jan, 2023)

Friends, this is one of the most scintillating hockey I have seen for a while. If you did not watch this game yesterday and you get to see the replay somewhere, please, please watch it.

Both teams have been trading 5th and 6th place ranking for a while. In the Commonwealth Games, they drew as recently as in 2022. Both teams stated that “attack” is their main strategy. Both coaches said that “defense” will win them a game (for “attack” as a strategy). Everything came true exactly as expected. There were opportunities literally showering cats and dogs in every minute of the game. Both teams were ready to take risks and exposed their goals. Both goalkeepers had some of the outstanding saves. Entire squad of both teams went up and down. For example, Indian defenders Harmanpreet and Amit Rohidas were hanging out in opponent areas more than defending Indian goal. England attacked from both flanks with very high speed. Hardik penetrated through the open space at center. I literally gasped with some spectacular feeders by Harmanpreet to the attacker in the penalty circle. Too many incidents, too many flashes of unbelievable skills, too much high speed running with the ball.. but no score.

Defense by both teams was even more spectacular. (I am really running short of words and overusing words like “spectacular”, “amazing”, oh well, such was the game!). Bottom-line, I was happy to see this game as a hockey fan and disappointed for not winning the game as an India fan.

I observed that unlike Germany, both these teams ran up and down and completely screwed my spatial analytical assumptions of branding players as defenders, midfielders and forwards. I will be watching the next India game in the stadium. Hopefully, I gain some insight.

I also observed that India (and other teams as well) as a team suddenly loses a focus at a stretch for 5-7 min. I do not understand team psychology. If any of you have comments on this topic, please let me know.

Ps: Credit to International Hockey Federation for the attached photo

Day 2: Four Matches, No Upsets, No News.. (14 Jan, 2023)

Three European powerhouses (Netherlands, Germany and Belgium) were pitted today against three Asian middle-ranked teams (Malaysia, Japan and Korea). Asian teams showed the passion and aggression in the first half in spurts. European teams were not finding the rhythm in attack. So, nothing happened in the first half, there were no goals, zippo, zilch! In the second half, the methodical approach of Europeans and the lack of dribbling skills of Asians were sufficiently exposed. Again, nothing unexpected happened. Europeans won with large margins. In the fourth game, New Zealand established the early lead against enthusiastic Chile, which Chile could not overcome. But in the process, Chile scored their first ever goal in the World Cup and the only goal by a loser in this first round of league matches. Pretty pathetic and boring. Isn’t it?

Is it because this is the first round of league matches that eliminate just one team out of four from each group? Is it because I am hockeyed out watching 16 hours of hockey in two days? Is the gap between excellent teams and second level teams too wide? Who knows!

Of course, I can go into details and explain spectacular positioning of five German defensive players such that Japan could not penetrate the pass to its attackers. Such amazing spatial awareness of defense is impossible to see on TV. In attack, they always had two players in the circle (note that unlike Soccer, there is no offside in Hockey). They moved the defenders to the midfield (leaving the goal fully exposed) and the midfielders provided the transition to feel the circle. Wow! Will they have the same chakravyuha against India and which Abhimnyu will break it? Stay tuned. It can get pretty interesting!

Day 1 – India beats Spain 2-0 (13 Jan, 2023)

India came out smoking hot on home turf beating Spain 2-0. This was expected to be a tough game. Spain has beaten India thrice in 2022. They have a history of being spoilers. Spain and India (along with Netherlands) have been the only countries that have qualified in ALL world cups since the tournament started. So, this is a huge win for India under its belt.

In the first half, India was aggressive and attacked the penalty circle with vengeance. Whenever Spaniards had possession, there were 2-3 Indian defenders around them. This risky strategy is not sustainable without incredible fitness of Indian players and extremely fast (almost every 2-3 min) and seamless rotation by coach Reid. I saw one other amazing skill displayed by the Indian midfielders. They scooped the ball to the right flank with consistent success, yielding several penetrations and securing at least three penalty corners. All these opportunities yielded two goals. First goal was by Amit Rohidas, the local Sundargadh hero from Rourkela (where the game was being played), during a penalty corner rebound. The second goal was by Hardik Singh (Nope, not that Cricket guy), attacking from the left baseline with his 3-D skills (which means raising the ball on the hockey stick and running with it). Amit’s first goal was also the 200th goal by India in the world cup (the fifth country to do so).

In the second half, India lost a very simple opportunity. Captain Harmanpreet also missed a rare penalty stroke. All of these misses impacted our mental focus in subsequent penalty corners. In the fourth quarter, an Indian player received a ten-minute suspension (unfair from my perspective) and India had to resolve to the defense. Overall, excellent start for India. Please watch the next crucial India-England game on Sunday at 7 pm (India time) and 8:30 am on the east coast in USA

As I had mentioned earlier, I will be watching every game played in Bhubaneshwar. I watched Argentina-South Africa and Australia-France. Despite being ranked seventh in the world, Argentina was disorganized and played an awful game. Luckily, they won against weak South Africa 1-0. Ranked one and favorite Australians are an amazing team. High skills, well organized, fast and efficient in the penalty circle converting penetrations into goals. Naturally, they won 8-0 against another weak team France. I will write about my experience of watching live matches (vs watching matches on TV) in my next edition.

Bizarre Disqualification of Pakistan

How many of you have watched India-Pakistan hockey games in 70s and 80s? Ahhh, they were the epitome of classical field hockey! Ballet on the field, stickwork, speed and short passes of Tahir Zaman, Samiullah and Hasan Sardar! There was nothing more beautiful to watch in sports!  Oh well, the situation has changed. Pakistan has not qualified for the 2023 world cup. Gone are those days of neighborly rivalry that defined the art of hockey! 

Pakistan has won the world cup 4 times out of 14. In fact, Col Noor Khan of Pakistan is the one who initiated and organized the first world cup in 1971. So, what the fxxx is going on? What happened?

I tried to read the sports articles in Pakistani media on google. They have the usual complaints that modern hockey has stolen the emphasis of stick work, shifted the focus of the game to Europe blah blah blah! But they never did the homework that modern hockey was introduced in 1986 and Pakistan still emerged as the champion in 1994. Media also blamed resources, corruption, administrators, and the government exactly the way India did in the 1980s when it collapsed spectacularly from the pinnacle of the game. Those were generic issues. So, what really happened in 2023? That is a freaking bizarre story.

The scene is the Asia cup 2022. Top four teams would have qualified for the world cup. In the Pakistan-Japan match a draw game would have been sufficient for Pakistan to qualify. Pakistan scored and it was now 3-3. Then the referee saw that Pakistan had 12 players on the field. Pakistan captain got a five-minute suspension. Pakistan could not believe that they had 12 players on the field. So, they objected. During the review, it was found that 12 players were on the field during the previous goal itself and hence, the goal itself was withdrawn. Pakistan lost the game 2-3, and were eventually never reached the top four positions. Have you ever heard of such a bizarre idiotic story?

It would have been so much fun to beat Pakistan! But that rivalry is no more! Sad, indeed!

India Is In A Tough Pool

I am visiting Bhubaneshwar, India for the World Cup Hockey Championship among 90+ nations, 16 of whom have qualified for the final rounds in Bhubaneshwar and Rourkela in India. Important knockouts are in Bhubaneshwar, so I decided to stick here, instead of visiting Rourkela. I will send regular snippets of the competition for your quick review.

There are four groups each with four teams. After playing league matches, the last team is eliminated. The second and third teams play cross-over, then quarterfinals, semi-finals and finals. It means only one team is eliminated at the end of league matches.    

Four pools are:

Pool A: Argentina, Australia, France, South Africa  

Pool B: Belgium, Germany, Japan, Korea   

Pool C: Netherlands, New Zealand, Malaysia, Chile    

Pool D: India, England, Spain, Wales      

Being an American citizen, I would have loved to have the USA in the tournament. Besides, Pakistan has had illustrious success in the world cup tournaments with four out of 14 championships. But they could not qualify. I will explain that bizarre situation in the next snippet.   

Why is India in a tough spot? England is ranked 5th; India is ranked 6th and Spain is ranked 8th. While Wales is a newcomer, they have shown great promise in recent Commonwealth games. It means, if they win against any of the three teams, they can throw the pool in complete chaos. Incidentally, Pool B is also in the same predicament.     

Finally, some stats: India has won the world cup in 1975 and bronze in recent Tokyo Olympics. Guided by able coach from Australia, Graham Reid, they are hungry, fit, fast, have stamina and skills. England has reached the semis in the last three consecutive world cups and have never even got the bronze medal. They are hungry. Spain is a traditional spoiler and Wales is entering this tournament for the first time. They will create chaos in Pool D. Enjoy, Go India Go!

मोगऱ्याची फुले

Recall mogra’s gone wild … we have been getting about 2.5 sandwich size ziploc’s  for the last 3-4 days but todays gallon size packed is the largest haul of the season… amazing nature 🙏🙏- Vikram

Wow. 😍. Too bad we didn’t get to wear गजरा here. What are you going to do with them. Where do you buy mogara plant – Prajakta

Renuka will tell u I suffocate the gods with flowers 😳😳 – Vikram

विक्रम, 

तू पूजेत देवांना फुलांच्या ओझ्याखाली गुदमरवतो आहेस हे चांगलेच करतो आहेस. पण तुझ्याकडे त्यापेक्षाही जास्त फुले आहेत. तेंव्हा एक काम कर. छान लाल दोऱ्यात गुंफलेला मस्त गजरा तयार कर. तो करताना कदाचित मन हळुवार होऊन तुला सुरेश भटांची छान रोमॅंटिक गाणी आठवायला लागतील. त्या गाण्यांना जवळपास सुद्धा उभं करू नकोस. तुच्छतेने त्यांना लांब झिडकार. असं का ते नंतर सांगतो.  थांब, उतावळा होऊ नकोस. 

आता तो गजरा स्वतःच्याच डाव्या मनगटात बांध. संध्याकाळी जेवण वगैरे झाल्यावर तुझ्या सोफ्यालाच राजमहालातला एक तक्का मान. फोर्ड मध्ये डेस्कवर जसा धप्पकन जाऊन मुडद्यासारखा बसायचास तसा बसू नकोस. तक्क्याशी जाईपर्यंत पावलं दमदार हवीत. बसताना मान थोडीशी ताठर आणि तिरकी व्हायला हवी. जगाकडे अतिशय मग्रुरीने आणि तुच्छतेने बघायचा आविर्भाव डोळ्यात दिसायला हवा. विष्णू जसा समुद्रात थाटात बसतो, तसं रेलून बसता यायला हवं. डावा पाय मुडपून उजव्या पायावर ठेवता यायला हवा. मग आता मोगऱ्याचा वास घ्यायला लाग. वास घेताना मान आखडवून उजवीकडे बघायचं. पण लक्ष डावीकडच्या मोगऱ्यावर  पाहिजे. त्यामुळे तुझ्या मनातली अरेरावी वाढेल आणि सर्वात महत्वाचं म्हणजे ती तुझ्या चेहेऱ्यावर दिसायला लागेल. 

आता सर्वात महत्त्वाचं! तुझ्या घशातल्या सर्वात खर्जातल्या आवाजात रेणुकाला हाक मार. 

“रेणुका, चांदीच्या वाटीत अत्तरमिश्रित तेल घेऊन ये. आणि दुसऱ्या चांदीच्या परडीत द्राक्ष सुध्दा आण.” 

तुझ्या आवाजातली मग्रुरी तिला जाणवेल. तुझ्या डोळ्यातली जरब त्या जाड भिंगांच्या चष्म्यातून सुध्दा तिला कळेल. अगदी अदबीने तेल आणि द्राक्ष घेऊन येईल आणि तुझ्या डोक्याच्या जवळ डोळे झुकवून विनम्रतेने बसेल. तिला सांग, 

“रेणुका, माझा चष्मा अलगद काढ. नाकाच्या जवळ आणि कानाच्या मागे जरासुध्दा टोचत कामा नये. आणि मग, अगदी हळू हळू माझ्या केसांमधून तेल लावून मॉलिश कर.” 

ही अतिशय अवघड वेळ आहे. सुरेश भटांची रोमँटिक गाणी परत तुझ्या मनात डोकावायला लागतील. त्यांना चार शिव्या हाण. बायकोसमोर मग्रुरी टिकवायलाच हवी. मग तिला अगदी अलगद तुझ्या तोंडात एक द्राक्ष सोडायला टाक. बटाटेवडा कसा गरम तेलाच्या कढईत सोडतो तसं! माझ्या उपमांचा विचार करू नकोस. माझ्या फालतू उपमांकडे बघत बसायला तुला वेळ नाही आहे. आता अशी द्राक्ष खाताना सगळं जग कसं तुच्छ आहे त्याचा विचार करत राहा. 

तुला अचानक कदाचित जाणवेल ही हे अशक्य आहे. कदाचित मोगऱ्याच्या वेलीला शेणकूट दुधीभोपळा लटकू शकेल. पण हे शक्य नाही. पण तू रिटायर्ड आहेस हे विसरून नकोस. स्वप्न बघणे हा तुझा रिटायर्ड-सिद्ध हक्क आहे हे लक्षात घे. आणि परत मोगऱ्याच्या फुलांचं काय करू असा विचार चुकून सुद्धा मनात आणू नकोस. —  नितीन

Unusual Course: Landmark Forum

I took a leap of faith and went through the Landmark Forum course (previously known as EST) approximately five weeks ago. It is neither a training nor a “how to” class. It is not about improving one’s habits. It is not a “cult” or spiritual preaching. It is not a group therapy. It does not deliver knowledge. There were no notes to be taken and nothing was comparable to my previous training of any kind. But still it was 4+12+12+12+4 = 44 hours (over five days) of intense engagement on zoom call for the price of $675 with just one solitary coach. OK, then what the fxxx was this course about?

Before the course began, I was asked “What would I like to improve in myself”? What could be my blind spots? That process of self-evaluation was not simple. I have a tight-knit and robust relationship not only with Anjali and kids, but also with mine and Anjali’s siblings, nephews and nieces. In general, I am a happy person who likes to keep a child in me alive. Yes, I feel the pain, get depressed and engulf myself in sorrow. But I am usually aware of my emotions and maybe therefore, I somehow overcome them.

Eventually I figured out my main deficiency. I am an undisciplined fellow and do not stick to routine. There are two undesirable outcomes of such indiscipline. First, I do not complete every one of my projects or assignments. Second, I eat more than I desire, expect, plan or decide. If this course would provide me with “discoveries” or “aha” moments to plug such holes, that would be a fantastic improvement in my life.

The course started building through a series of 2–3-hour sessions. Topic is introduced briefly by the coach with very few examples. She would then challenge the attendees to go through a real personal exercise. For example, we had a session on facts, impressions of facts and fiction. Our mind continuously mixes them up. One attendee lady neither had the courage to divorce nor could she live happily in the marriage. She was encouraged to have a dialogue with her husband during the break. When she reported back to the whole group, she continued to intermix her plain dialogue from her various emotional impressions of the dialogue. She had a tough, iterative, long discussion with the coach to separate emotions from facts in front of all of us.

There were many other sessions, such as forgetting one’s past, living in the present, taking actions NOW even if they are uncomfortable, staying away from biases, becoming honest and authentic in one’s interactions with family members and colleagues. The culminating session was about how life is empty and meaningless (and how one can give it a meaning that one DESIRES .. because it is meaningless to start with). 

In contrast to the other attendees, I was already exposed to these concepts. I had briefly read material on Hindu philosophy, such as Vedas, Upanishads and Bhagavad Gita. But that was just a theory. Practicing such concepts is a whole different matter. For example, I cannot live in present even for two seconds. My thoughts constantly jump from some useless mundane stuff to solving world hunger. Surprisingly, the group sharing in this course of such complex concepts was something totally different.

It was an absolute honor to have so many attendees share their deep personal experiences live with us during the course. The narration of experiences involved tortuous crying, emotional outbursts, exposure of deep wounds and laying bare stories of one’s entire life to 70 strangers. Yes, for any outsider, it looked like a cult gathering, psychological group therapy and a strange meeting with some evangelical priest. But for me, it was Hindu philosophical concepts in practice. The practitioners were not those long-bearded sadhus dressed in Saffron clothes. They were ordinary and vulnerable whites, Hispanics and blacks who had never ever heard about Hindu philosophy.

But wait. Did I plug my holes? Did I discover myself to become a disciplined individual? No, I did not. That self-discovery or “aha” moment never occurred for me. Apparently, I will continue to eat merrily to my heart’s (and stomach’s) content. Weight reduction will continue to be not (a sugar-laden) cup of tea for me. I will continue to move from one assignment to another like a butterfly. Oh well, life will go on. Meanwhile, awareness of empty and meaningless life in the group setting did remind me again that I should pause before succumbing myself to any emotions. I rediscovered that it is fun to see my own emotions as a third person. That “journey” of self-awareness continues! For this one reason, it was worth going through the course for me.

Should you do this course? I do not know. It depends on your affordability for time and money, the stage at which you are in your life, and your acceptance to delve into such esoteric concepts. Otherwise, of course, you can look in the mirror (literally and figuratively), look around to see your own blind spots and move on with your life! And that works too!

Nitin Anturkar (August 2022)